Outlooks and blind spots. I have 'em. You have 'em. Companies have 'em. Nations have 'em. My outlook on life, my point of view, is shaped, colored, tainted, skewed by the filters of my gender, race, age, family order, etc., as well as all the exeriences I've ever had – religious/spiritual, traumatic/pleasureable. The problem is... Learn More

I love working with couples – especially couples in transition. It's only a matter of time before a couple is in transition, unless both parties are totally and fully committed not to grow – which is rather difficult these days. One of the funniest complaints I hear on a regular basis, "S/He isn't the same... Learn More

I shared a want I had with someone who mattered to me. It was a want that I was fairly certain wouldn't happen. And I wanted to stay true to myself, to have all my cards on the table, to be all-in The Flow. My friend put all his cards on the table. The cards... Learn More

Louise Smith, a Senior Trainer, recently returned from a trip to South Africa where she lead 3 More To Life Weekends – Johannesburg, Cape Town, Durban. She was riding high, still amazed at herself for the jump-shift in her confidence in herself, in the team/participants of each weekend, and her trust in The Flow. The... Learn More

Scene:  Camp Allen, Navasota, TX – Day 5 of 7 of Evolution of Mastery (an advanced residential course in the More To Life program) – lying on a pier, mid-afternoon, warm sun, 3 buzzards circling (I must have been there awhile). The wind was mildly gusting, a wooden post was keeping the sun off my... Learn More

Scene: looking at my calendar to find a time to have lunch with a friend. No time till April. What? Seriously? Yep, as I flipped through the weeks, looking for a noon-ish space, the lifeshock was seeing the first open lunch time – April 2. The Discernment: I've relapsed back into pretending I'm needed –... Learn More