In the last two years, I have made 4 trips to New Zealand in order to cascade the More To Life coaching program there. In the process, I have become very involved with the lives of many of the Kiwi's. (The Kiwi bird is a national symbol for New Zealand and an affectionate term for... Learn More

There was an author who used to go to the ocean to do his writing. He had a habit of walking on the beach before he began his work. One day he was walking along the shore. As he looked down the beach, he saw a human figure moving like a dancer. He smiled to himself... Learn More

Kevin Kasperitis is the Training Supervisor for the next More To Life Weekend in Huntsville, Alabama (March 18-20). In our conversation yesterday, he mentioned several instances lately that had a similar "feel" to him. When we looked at what tied those lifeshocks (something that happens) together, he could see that each one was an instance... Learn More

I met a very successful surgeon on one of my flights. He was tall, very good-looking, happily married with 3 kids he loved and who loved him. In college he was the star quarterback, he had his home in the city and another in ski country. He had everything. He was the epitome of 'success'... Learn More

I was summoned to do my civic duty and be one of 500+ people waiting in an auditorium for my name to be called. I went prepared – computer, cellphone, paperback novel, reading glasses, Larabars, almonds, dried pineapple, 2 water bottles. It may have been awhile since I was last called, but my memory isn't... Learn More

I've had several therapy sessions lately from which emerged an ancient theme – men and women hold divergent views regarding the intimate act of making love.  Well, duh! And yet, in significant relationships, that theme can be forgotten. If both genders remembered the other point of view, their relationships might go a little more smoothly.... Learn More