Last week I had the great good fortune to talk with one of my soul sisters, Wendy Bouman in Durban, South Africa (I LOVE Skype)!  In the process of that conversation, she mentioned a difficulty she was having with someone who appeared to be emotionally needy much of the time. I understood. There have been... Learn More

Way back in the day, I didn't know how to be alone. I was normalized to the press of people that comes with being in a big family. The advantages of a big family are legion, a downside is not knowing how to BE when there's no stimulus from anyone – no one to react/respond... Learn More

There is a hermit, alive and well, residing in my psyche. Growing up in a nuclear family of 10, plus my grandmother and an aunt and uncle, plus various and sundry other folks that we included on a regular basis, didn't allow anything remotely resembling "alone time" – for anyone. When I was 16, we... Learn More

This past weekend, Peggy Jarrett and I, along with William Holt and Warren Kahn (all Senior Trainers for the More To Life Program) completed 3 months of an intensive course designed by Sophie Sabbage – the Art of Creative Leadership. It's been designed as an intervention for the More To Life Program, using Action Learning... Learn More

The other day, Beth McAlpine (a More To Life Coach) was telling me about a huge shift she made in her personal power. She was the Training Supervisor for the last More to Life Weekend in Johannesburg, South Africa. The moment she realized it was a shift was when her voice was strong and attention-getting,... Learn More

For those of you who have participated in a More To Life Weekend (aka The Life Training, back in the day), I would be more than interested in your story.  I am doing some research about the power of knowing about lifeshocks (things that happen), how you utilized the clearing process especially (feelings, mindtalk), and... Learn More