Vulnerability and Dr. Brad Brown
Vulnerability was one of the attributes of Brad Brown, co-creator of the More To Life Program. He was beloved by so many people all across the globe. He would openly share of his own foibles, disconnects, and misses; as well as his dreams and hopes. He was easy to know, transparent. You never had to... Learn More
Vulnerability and Relationships
It seems easier to me to be open, frank, and real with those with whom I have no investment in my future – people with whom I have nothing to lose, emotionally. The harder it is for me to be open, frank, and real, the more vulnerable I feel. The more vulnerable I feel, the... Learn More
Vulnerable vs Weak
The dictionary defines "vulnerable" as "susceptible to physical or emotional attack or harm." Well, no wonder we avoid being vulnerable at all costs. We're not stupid. It sounds painful – and the natural result of being weak. And yes, it has been painful – many times. I remember in college having powerful feelings of love... Learn More
Being a Victim of Your Culture
"If you see in any given situation only what everybody else can see, you can be said to be so much a representative of your culture that you are a victim of it." S. I. HayakawaUniversity PresidentU.S. Senator, California August, 1995 (the year after apartheid ended), Johannesburg, South Africa Sunday morning of the More To... Learn More
More about the 3 lenses – the trans-personal lens
This one is the toughest to explain, because it has so much depth and so many layers. Fundamentally, the trans-personal lens has to do with those events or issues that transcend individuals and relationships. There is a required maturity in order to see life through this lens. To engage with the trans-personal requires me to... Learn More
More about the 3 lenses – the interpersonal lens
I have spent the last 4 days in the company of Mexicans – being here in Mexico City. I have been quite struck by the power of interpersonal connections exhibited by almost everyone here – no matter if the person is a long-time friend or a perfect stranger. The other day, William and Adriana Holt... Learn More