According to Miriam Webster Dictionary, the word “liberal” means “generous, open-handed, broad-minded, advocate of individual rights.” According to that definition, I aspire to be liberal – allowing everyone the freedom to live their life the way they see fit.  And, like my Dad used to say, “your freedom ends at the beginning of my nose.”... Learn More

Scene: Zusha, 5 years old, very unhappy … dialogue with father: Ari: What’s wrong? Zusha: You know! Ari: I really don’t. Zusha: Yes, you do! Ari: Exhaling loudly. Zusha, what is Life Lesson #2? Zusha: appreciate everything that you have – there, ok? Ari: Did you appreciate waking up this morning? Zusha: mumblemumblemumble Ari: Sorry,... Learn More

I am concerned about the degree of divisiveness in our world, some of it vitriolic, irrational, knee-jerk, one-dimensional. I am concerned about the lack of concern regarding the reality of three American women being murdered every day by an intimate partner. I am concerned that the world’s fastest growing crime is the trafficking of women... Learn More

My friend Ari has a son, Zusha. Zusha had a meltdown when he didn’t get his way – normal behavior for a 4-year-old, right? This is their interaction: Ari: Zusha, what’s Life Lesson Number 1? Zusha (through angry tears): YOU’RE responsible for my happiness. Ari gives him “The Look.” Zusha: trying to hold back a... Learn More

A few weeks ago, I had the great privilege of being the officiant at the wedding of two friends. These two friends work in the same industry, lived in the same neighborhood, shopped in the same stores, had worked for the same boss at different points in time and had friends in common – but... Learn More

Last Sunday, I did a webinar on Boundaries – 56 people from 5 different countries. One woman asked how to address someone not keeping their word. In her case, the other person made a unilateral decision that adversely affected her, when she had no input into his change of mind. I’m sure you can relate.... Learn More